A Life Less Ordinary

What is it about sex and single women that drives everybody crazy? Single women, or women without partners to be exact, are somewhat an enigma to men and other “partnered” women. My grandmother used to feel sorry for me, saying staying single will not make me fulfill my destiny (more of an obligation) of motherhood. Male friends always teased me that staying single will actually make my v—-a close up…permanently.

Okay, they’re all wrong. For one, grandma, I am now a mother. I’ve fulfilled my destiny. And guys, being single doesn’t mean I can’t find ways to keep it open and satisfy myself at the same time.

A friend of mine sent this news article on a “new sexuality survey [that] has confirmed what women know and some men fear - single females have far more luck achieving orgasm than those partnered off.” Very interesting. And very true! (Please click image to enlarge.)

According to the article, women tend to get more aroused and satisfied easily when there is no distraction such as satisfying the man. I don’t know about other women, but I still prefer to have the man in the picture. I have no problems connecting with myself even with a man around. But yes, there is a different thrill derived from a masturbation. A different kind of orgasm.

The article showed the varied lifestyles women now lead. More open and with more choices. Imagine if women behaved like this—in relationships with sex, in relationship without sex, single with sex—in the early 20th century, we could have been stoned!

The second part of the article (not shown here) continues the findings presented in the last paragraph:

“We like to think of people having wild sex for their whole lives but the reality isn’t quite like that,” Dr Howard said.

More than 80 percent of women in their 40s were sexually active, but this figure declined to 27 per cent for those in their 70s.

Hmm…now, would you really want to worry about orgasm when you’re in your 70s on top of other problems you would have to deal with?

Tell me what you think about the article. Do you agree or disagree?